Please do not get me wrong that i'm madly in love and you guys are no more part of my life. Yes, i'm in a relationship but one that is still budding and growing. Our frenship and feelings do not just happen to be there out of a sudden and it definiely takes time to nurture . One thing to clarify, I did not just fall madly in love with him upon first sight.(Him being an ang moh doesnt make him anymore special than any other guy . It is our ability to communicate with each other and common interests that we share which got my attention) . The process of getting together was actuali quite a long period (not reali but it felt like then) of praying, struggling and fighting against temptations, establishing a foundation of friendship etc. Its not exactly termed as romantic in the worldly way but it was a time where God's will was seeked and glorified. Prayer, constant struggling etc doesnt just stop after entering courtship. It is a whole new set of issues to struggle and handle in courtship (of cos His will is still continually seeked).
Not meaning to scare anyone off, this entire process does have its beautiful moments where times spent together are cherished and be thankful of.
And of cos, we all have to bear in mind that no one is perfect. All of us have our own weaknesses to deal with and don't expect Josh to be a perfect guy (u will be disappted cos he's human after all). I hope that you guys could get to know him beta via msn if u r free and avaliable online. I hope this would help to erase all presumptions made abt him and our relationship. Think he would be more than happy to have let u know him beta (& also 4 him yo know u beta).
Not specifically to anyone, but pls put away all sorts of prejudice or bias judgement against him and you will find that he is a very attractive & friendly person. =)
Josh's msn email is : hoshohiggs@hotmail.com
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