Saturday, February 19, 2005

halo again

Halo guys!!! sorry to take such a loonnnng time to update. =P Thanks for understanding though.
First at foremost, i gotta apologise for not being able to be there for some ...(okay la 90%) of the outings this year. I promise to make up for those soon.
Anyways, i'm sure most of you are wondering whether if i had disappeared amongst my books or if i had been oin sth fishy behind your back. kk.....think most of you cant stand the beating around the bush method. Let me spill some of the beans. (some ..not all).
Yes.....jay u r rite. I'm attached right now. hmm.....what else should i say?....
We are currently in courtship and have a final goal of marriage in mind. Whether if i'm too young to think about marriage now? Personally, i dun blive so. This all depends alot on what you really want out of life really. If your vision is to glorify God by becoming someone with an outstanding career then that shall be it (til He show you otherwise). However, if your vision in life is to glorify Him by serving, loving and spending more time with a beloved, then your life priorites will always be taken into consideration of the other person.
Likewise, marriage might seem impossible during uni if you are one who has the former vision. On the otherhand, marraige is definitely possible as a uni student if your vision is of the later. Definitely it would be tough since you have to scrap and save often and also worry about paying the bills and also a new life. Yes, challenging as it seem, if God had grant you the wisdom and guidance to get married to him/her, He would also give you the grace to pull thru all things that coems along with it. Thus, one is neva too young to get married in uni when they are very assured that they have found the right one.
One important thing to clarify is that though this might seem impossible in Singapore, it is very possible in Australia. Youth there work and recieve youth allowance from their govt, thus they are able to be finacially capable to marry at a young age.

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