Sunday, February 21, 2010

Maybe I'm just not good enough.....

My kids are respectively 3 years and 3 months old. My life have barely started with them but I've already gone through many days thinking myself as a lousy mother.People often say that it gets easier with each additional kids. I just hope they are talking about it in the long term sense.....

7 comments:

weiz said...

If it is of any comfort, there is not a day gone by that I do not think of myself as a lousy mother and wife, Wei'er.

But it's also God's way of humbling us and making us strive better towards becoming more like Christ :)

Wei said...

Thanks Weiz....its a comfort to know that i'm not alone. =)

Charmaine said...

Motherhood is a challenging role. There is no perfect mother out there. We are doing the best we can each and every day, even on the days when we feel like we're a poor mother. Don't beat yourself up... you're not alone in this journey. At different times, I am sure we mothers go through these stages. I know I do....but I look at my children and see that they are happy and balance and I think it's all worthwhile - the good, the bad and the ugly! Have a great day.

Wei said...

thanks Charmaine! its really good to know that there are mothers out there actually stumbling unto my blog and its good to know another mum in the land of OZ.I was just having a bad day but am feeling much better now. You have a great food blog and how awesome is it to have a hubby that is able to cook up a storm too!

Charmaine said...

Wei, which part of this land of Oz do you reside? I know of other Msian mums in Oz who blog too!

becky huang said...

hey gal, jiayou! im no mother, but what i do see of you being a mother is inspiring. and all by His grace of course :)

hey we still havent met?! are you doing anything friday night?

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Thanks